Have your significant other (or good friend) cut your hair. This is only entertaining when the significant other or friend has little experience in cutting hair, but it always saves money. I grew up getting my hair cut by my mom (even occasionally through college and optometry school) so it’s nothing new for me.
Amanda does a great job cutting my hair. Has been for probably almost a year now. Each time she swears is her last time, cause it stresses her out. Somehow, though, I’m able to convince her when the time rolls around again to try once more. Her stress is all self-derived. It really doesn’t bother me when she messes up, or if my hair doesn’t look right…but she seriously does an excellent job. I’m going to go watch her get a haircut so hopefully I can try out my barber skills on her someday.
I used to care more about my hair…I used hair spray as a teen, styling gel in college, and pomade until I ran out of it a couple of months ago. My pomade was the good American Crew kind that costs like 10-15 bucks for a little jar, and even though it lasted for a long time I decided I didn’t want to pay that anymore. So I ran out and stopped using any product, period. Without product, my hair has little pieces that stick up at the back. But somehow (maybe because I’m married to a gorgeous woman and my desire to look impressive has decreased) I don’t mind.
*Personal side note: To white guys who want to try and save on pomade, I do not recommend getting the Murray’s product, made specifically to work well with African-American hair, even though it’s only $1.87 per jar. As advertised, it did hold my hair in place…for approximately 3 weeks.
Anyway, she cut my hair the other night and did a great job. During the actual haircut, though, there’s usually at least one or two mistakes. This time she stood back and just started looking at my head and laughing hysterically (which made me laugh, of course). Tears came to her eyes as she told me she had cut a hole in my head. My haircuts are so fun…I’ve never had as much fun getting my hair cut as I’m having now.
I thank God that somehow, not completely through efforts of my own, I have developed a self image that’s deeper than how my hair sticks up or how my clothes aren’t always stylish. I also thank God everyday for my awesome new hair stylist, who loves the wisdom of frugality more than the trendiness of a $20 haircut.
While we’re on the subject, though, anyone know of a homemade recipe for any kind of hair gel, pomade, cream, or anything I could dab on the back of my hair so it stays in control? It’s not enough to pay for, but I always enjoy a little chemistry experiment. :)